I’m on the site fetlife, and I’m very socially awkward. Talking to new people there is no problem, but I’ve come across people there I’ve know for years irl never knowing about their kinky side before. I have no idea how to approach them about it, or even if I should. Any advice for me?

I’m also socially awkward, but I don’t let it stop me from interacting with others. Not everyone can understand me or connect with me, but I know if I meet enough people and talk to enough people that I will eventually find someone that does. It’s a numbers game. The more people you talk with, the better you will get at shooting the shit with people and the likelihood of finding someone you are compatible with goes up. 

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