Hey! So just wondering your opinion on something. My now (maybe temporary) ex-boyfriend and I decided back in August to try opening up our relationship. We were together nearly 5 years. I’m a bi female and he’s straight. I wanted to look for someone together, more as a poly situation, which he was def down for. But then he decided to pick this girl for himself who wasn’t even completely comfortable with the open idea, and has NO interests in girls. What do you think about this?

I think his actions have spoken loudly and clearly. He is interested in this girl for himself and is not on board with what you agreed upon. It sounds like he was an ex for a reason and he’s just reminding you of why. Listen to him.